This is how I made the impossible happen this July...

Honestly?

This past month challenged every single dream I’ve ever had.

[Recap of my dreams: sell the van, travel to Bali, girls trip, kick some business milestones]

Dreaming about selling the van and moving to Bali? Easy.

Holding that dream through 6+ weeks of no offers, people in my DMs telling me I was delusional, friends not-so-gently suggesting I lower the price, and the voice in my head whispering “maybe they’re right”?

That was f*cking hard.

Because it’s hard to hold onto your intuition when everything (and everyone) is screaming at you to come back to “reality”.

But the truth is, most people’s "reality" is just their belief about what's possible.

And I don’t say that with judgment, I say it with compassion as somebody who knows exactly what it feels like to wonder if maybe I’m just not good enough for the fairytale I wished for in my princess dress at seven years old.

There were so many moments last month where I could’ve given up.

And the old voice in my head started to creep back in:“Maybe they’re right. Maybe this is unrealistic. Maybe it’s time to actually get serious and settle down.”

But I didn’t delete the listing.I didn’t spiral and keep lowering the price.I didn’t abandon the value I knew I wanted.

I anchored even deeper into it. 

And I used every single embodiment tool I’ve ever taught. 

Not because I was trying to “hack” the universe. But because I needed to feel safe holding my desire.

👉 When you feel safe, you have confidence.

👉 When you feel confident, you take bold action.

👉 When you take bold action, you get bold results.

So I want to tell you exactly what I did, step by step, because this is what feminine manifestation actually looks like. Not scripting and hoping and waiting (because let’s be honest, if that worked we’d all be millionaires right?)

But true feminine embodiment which is the deepest, safest, most energetic alignment you can be in as a woman.

Here’s exactly what I did to manifest my dreams in July:

1. I got clear on what I wanted.Not just “I want to sell the van.” I got specific. To whom? For how much?What would it feel like to have the money in my account? How would I use it?What would that open up for me? What would that allow me to do, experience, become? And then I asked: what would it take to get from where I am now, to there? 

2. I visualised it. Like… every day.I created a vision board that made my whole body light up. I had images of bank cheques and sweet retired couples and flight tickets with dates on them. Every day at 6am it was a 20 minute Joe Dispenza visualisation before I got out of bed.

Sometimes I added in a walk down the road acting as if I was in Bali already.Sometimes I listened to a playlist, a vibe, a moment that tapped into the feeling of being there. Every day, I put myself in the scene. Felt it. Smelled it. Tasted it. Let it feel real in my body.

3. I found proof that it was possible.The voice of fear and “reality” kept saying “You can’t have this.”So I looked for women who already had what I wanted… not the ones who were born rich or married in… but the ones who actually created it. I followed their work, listened to their stories, soaked in their energy. It wasn’t about copying them, it was just about reminding my body: if she can, so can I. And I switched off the part of my brain that looked to familiar faces for advice, because if they'd never had it, why would I ask them how to get it?

4. I regulated the fear when it came up.Because let’s be real, it did come up. The doubt. The “what ifs.” The sadness. The panic. It’s all just energy begging to be released in the body so I allowed it to bubble to the surface and I released it. Generations of scarcity, working class mentality, and tall poppy syndrome death with in real time.I danced it out. I cried and raged. I EFT tapped. I somatically shook. I breathworked. I did whatever I needed to do to come back into my body and remind myself I was safe to want what I wanted.

5. I acted like it was already done.I picked the date I wanted to move to Bali. I took every single possible action I could to sell the van and listed it like crazy, asked people to share it, and spent money I didn’t have on ads, driving it 40 minutes into town to park up every day… because I knew it would worth it when it did sell.I started researching flights and accommodation. I opened a new bank account for the cheque I knew was coming. I looked at villas. I made Pinterest boards and plans with my girlfriend. Even when I didn’t know how it was going to happen, I moved like it already had. And I asked myself, “Am I doing everything I possibly could be, to make this come true?”

And guess what?

I sold the van. For a price pretty darn close to what I originally had in mind. And to a sweet retired couple who paid with a bank cheque.

I didn’t hit Bali on the exact date I’d planned for (the 25th), but by that date, the money was in my account.

I booked the ticket to Bali later that night.

I packed up my life in 3 days and landed just before the end of the month and still had five beautiful days with my best friend, shaking our asses poolside with some cocktails.

This isn’t a formula. It’s not a trick. It’s just what happens when you get into alignment with what you actually want… and then move like it’s already yours.

This is feminine embodiment. And it works.

If you’re in a place where the dream feels far away,if everyone around you is telling you to settle, if you’re doubting whether you’re “allowed” to want what you want.

I see you.

And I hope this gives you something real to hold onto.

Let me know if you try any of these practices. I’d love to hear what shifts for you.

Big love,

Haley xx